Social Media, Business and the People-First Approach

by susanryoung on March 19, 2010

drummer boysIn the disabilities community, “People-First” language rules. 

Before I started my company ten years ago, I was Public Relations director for a statewide nonprofit in New Jersey. We advocated for people with disabilities, like mental retardation, epilepsy and autism.

Please go back and re-read this last sentence. Notice the phrase “advocated for people with disabilities.” I didn’t say advocated for disabled people because I quickly learned on Day One of my PR job, it’s always “People-First language.” 

So it’s a boy with autism, not an autistic boy. It’s a woman with epilepsy, not an epileptic woman. They are people first. Disability or challenge is second. After a few days of writing press releases, pitches and articles, this became second nature. It still is. 

The “People-First” Mentality in Social Media & Business

This mindset applies to Social Media and business. For our purposes, don’t worry about what’s “politically correct.”  This approach is right because it’s based on your integrity and values. 

It’s called branding yourself by putting the needs of your prospects, clients and community first. Forget your own quota, cash flow and bills.  Forget selling something to someone. ”People-First” is is about genuinely building and nurturing relationships, with the innate understanding and faith that all else will follow. You will be taken care of.

The “People-First” approach in business means that you:

  • Share value and useful information first; keywords in your blog titles and headlines for SEO purposes are second. 
  • Post links that bring relevant articles, videos and resources to others first and forget about links that bring people to pages to so you can sell webinars, coaching and books. 
  • Tweet something and leave out the “Please RT” phrase. When people see value or like something, I trust they would be generous enough to share it with others without your encouragement. Care about sharing your knowledge for the sake of helping and not being self-serving.   
  • Write your website content, letters and marketing material with a focus on the value and results you bring to people; your experience and background follows.  
  • Pitch a news story or draft a press release to convey a compelling message that impacts the public instead of focusing on selling your book, products or services.   
  • Write tipsheets, articles and blog posts with the sole intention of helping people work through their challenges and be successful. Forget counting the hours, days or Tweets until the benefits come to you. Help people because you know in your heart it’s the right thing to do. 

Abundance will be yours when you put others first. Give it a try. “People-First” wins every time.

 

(Photo Credit: DST121)

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Turnpike signsI was on a Twitter chat tonight and a profound Tweet from @erinkoro grabbed my attention. Are you sitting down for this one?

“Listening is so 2009. Respond and engage is much more 2010.”

Ok, I remember hearing in the mall last year that ”Brown is the new black.”  Oprah and other magazines wrote articles for women declaring “”50 is the new 20.”  But according to this communications fiend, Erin’s words are dead-on. 

We don’t live in a one-way world of communication anymore. No one likes to be ignored. The days of TV newsman Walter Cronkite appearing in a box (called a Television) in our living rooms and talking “at us” are long gone. We all have opinions, ideas, values and experiences that we like to share. The millenials want to be heard, damn it. Interactive is the name of the  new game.

Erin also told me offline tonight that The ClueTrain Manifesto reminds us that “participation is the price of admission.”  Amen.

Consider these opportunities to respond and engage:

  • Respond and engage works for blogging 
  • Respond and engage works in conversations
  • Respond and engage works in online groups and chats
  • Respond and engage works on U-Stream 
  • Respond and engage works on call-in radio and TV shows
  •  Respond and engage works with Twitter, texts and our other gadgets
  • Respond and engage works in webinars
  • Respond and engage works in training classes and workshops
  • Respond and engage works in networking and sales
  • Respond and engage works at family dinners (as long as no one has earbuds in. Or are family dinners so 1960’s?) 

While I’m not ready to dismiss listening as a 2009 fad just yet, we are existing in an interactive world. This new way of life demands our responses and engagement. It requires critical thinking skills, polished communication, and a new sense of self-confidence.  

After all, if you don’t have something to say, someone else will.  It will probably be your competition. Welcome to 2010.

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Is Your Communication Leaking Poison?

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This week is National Poison Prevention Week. Who knew? Sure we can protect our kids from dangers lurking around the medicine chest, garage and laundry room.
What about us grown-ups? We certainly know the dangers of ingesting poison —but many of us have our own internal poison. It’s our toxic communication.
Do any of these sound familiar?
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One of the greatest daily communication challenges we face is that we’re constantly bombarded with beeps, Tweets, and downloads.
Blackberries, I-phones and other high-tech and low-tech gadgets are running us in circles with literally hundreds of messages and images a day. Most of them are irrelevant to our lives and are things we didn’t ask for. It can [...]

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March 9, 2010

Ten years ago in March, I ventured into the unknown, signed the incorporation papers in the State of New Jersey and launched my company. Susan Young Media Relations has since morphed into Get in Front Communications (more name change/incorporation papers, this time in Texas). A time of celebration, of looking back, of lessons learned. This is my ”Entrepreneur’s Baby Book.” Please, indulge [...]

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Women in Business: 7 Ways to Improve Your Communication

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During the past 100 years, women have made tremendous strides in fighting for equality and a level playing field. We have demanded the right to vote (Suffragette Alice Paul was from my homestate of New Jersey and refused to be silenced), burned our bra’s, marched on Washington, pushed for more equitable pay scales and so much more. We have also [...]

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10 Listening Blocks to Effective Communication

March 1, 2010

I’ve been studying a cutting-edge communication and conflict resolution model called Dialectical Behavioral Therapy. DBT addresses communication and listening skills, mindfulness, rapport and Emotional Intelligence (compassion, empathy and assertive communication). In a book titled Dialectical Behavioral Therapy Skills Workbook, the authors identify 10 ways that people sabotage their effective listening abilities.
Do these Listening Blocks sound familiar [...]

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Building Rapport in Social Media: Tapping into Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP)

February 23, 2010

One of the most exciting discoveries in business communication and psychology in the past 30 years has been the development of a communication and rapport-building tool called Neurolinguistic Programming.
If you’re not familiar with NLP, here’s the quick thumbnail. NLP was developed by Richard Bandler and John Grinder in the 1970s at the University of Santa [...]

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5 Tips to Simplify Your Business Writing

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One of the most critical skills in communication and business is the ability to express yourself in a clear and concise manner. Keeping things simple in our “crazy busy worlds”, where we are inundated with too much information (”TMI”), can be a challenge. If you think it’s difficult to say it simply, writing it can be even tougher. [...]

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5 Tips to Building Sales & Credibility with Vocal Vitality

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Making your words come alive is an integral piece of your communication.
Many of you know I was an on-air radio news anchor and news reporter for more than 10 years. In my college broadcasting classes, my favorite professor taught me that radio is “theater of the mind.” He then showed me and my classmates the importance of [...]

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