21 Signs that Social Media Has Taken Over the World

by susanryoung on February 5, 2010

The world spider

I break from my usual blogging theme of communication and public relations to bring you “The 21 Signs that Social Media Has Taken Over the World”:

  1.  Your baby is born in the hospital and the nurse asks,  ”What’s the baby’s handle so we can fill out his birth certificate?”
  2. The sign on the restaurant door says: “No shirt, no shoes, no gadgets, no service.”
  3. The new name for Hide and Seek is “Foursquare.”
  4. The phrase “He’s all thumbs” is considered a huge compliment for a fast texter.
  5. Every house with kids in it proudly displays their Avatars on the mantle in the den; no one seems to recall what a school picture is.
  6. Wikipedia as we know it is gone; it’s just a bunch of links.
  7. “The New Testament” is now the 10-set volume of Gary Vaynerchuk’s ”Crush It” series. It’s a wonderful source for kids in Sunday school classes every week.  Only second of course to “The Bible.”
  8. No one talks anymore. We simply chat.
  9. When someone says “Smile for the picture”, you immediately think :)  
  10. Your 6-year -old adoringly pleads at bedtime, “Please tell me that story again about The Three Wise Men: Chris Brogan,  Tom Peters, and Seth Godin.” 
  11. Gadgets like the I-Pad have gone the way of eight track tapes.
  12. Kids laugh at their parents when we describe how Tweetdeck worked.
  13. On special occasions, family dinner means Grandma shares her story, “When I was your age and had to Tweet from my Blackberry, we paid $12 to see the Avatar movie in 3D and got these silly glasses….”
  14. When someone says “Beam me up Scotty”, they really mean it.
  15.  When you go through the security check at airports, everyone beeps. We’re all wired and chipped. TSA who?
  16. The bumper stickers that say “Honk If You Love Country Music” have been replaced with “Tweet If You Love Blip.fm” – and no one ever gets a ticket.  
  17.  The board game Scrabble now has pieces with .ly and http://
  18. Phone books and libraries are obsolete.  There’s one book that matters: The Book of Links.
  19.  No one discusses the difference between bloggers and journalists because the last newspaper went to “Newspaper Heaven.”  
  20. Baby bibs that used to say “Spit Happens”  now read “Spam Happens, IMHO” 
  21. Mashable tops the newest version of the 7 Wonders of the World.

And I can’t figure out why I don’t sleep at night. Hmmm. :)

 

(Photo Credit: Tristan27)

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Doing Better On Twitter: 3 Tips To Tweet By

by susanryoung on February 4, 2010

I am happy to welcome Guest Blogger Mike Stenger. We invite you to leave a comment!  

Mike StengerTwitter is an interesting place. Who would have thought short exchanges of information, whether it’s about your latest blog post or even just saying hey to someone, could be such a wonderful and amazing concept. Many of us use Twitter and there are  questions I hear all the time…How Do I Get More Followers?, How Do I Get People to ReTweet My Stuff? and How Do I Get Others To Reply To Me/Engage With Me?

Questions that are originally asked with the idea that the answer is complex or some elusive “secret” that only the greatest social media expert guru rockstars (yes, that’s all one word), know about. Surprisingly, it couldn’t be further from the truth. And once you realize that the answers mostly just rely on effective communication skills and human psychology, the answers aren’t far away at  all.

Let’s look into the short and sweet yet highly effective version, or should I say answer, to the three questions above.

The first is to understand that in any part of life, online or offline, the quickest and best way to get to where you want to go is to build relationships.

 With a lot of this social media shift, quite a few businesses and companies think that sites such as Twitter and Facebook are there just to pitch and sell your customers. Uh uh. The real money, the real connections, and the real dedication to your brand are found in building genuine relationships. When you build authentic relationships and actually care about that other person, hard telling how far it can go and how profitable that interaction can become.

You don’t sell, sell, sell…you communicate like you’re a friend, someone that they talk to on a daily basis. The majority of society responds best to informal conversation, not all this business mumbo jumbo or “Hey, click here to buy this!” We all want a friend, not a salesperson.

Second, getting others to share your content and what you have to say starts not in you just interacting with them and engaging them in meaningful and helpful conversations. It’s about sharing their content when you get the chance. We all love recognition. To deny that is to deny the very part that makes you human. So for you to get recognition, you must not only interact and engage, but take the extra step and give others recognition as often as possible.

Of course there are tools to gain new followers but you’ve got to start with the foundations. And honestly, 99.9% of true followers are not gained through automated systems, they’re gained through meaningful conversations.

Third, engagement and interaction are the keys to success on Twitter. I don’t care how great your posts are or how great you think your Tweets are. It will not grow your following like gangbusters by plugging in Twitterfeed or other technology. You’ve got to engage and have natural conversations. Be a friend and talk like a friend. People first, profits second. Start up conversations on a consistent basis. Encourage participation and participate back by interacting as well as sharing what others have to say.

That’s how you do social media and that’s how all of us should do it everyday.

 

About Mike Stenger: Mike Stenger is a social media consultant and crazy passionate about the Internet and business. Visit MikeStenger.com or follow him on Twitter via @mikestenger

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Bridging Communication Gaps: 20 Ways to Improve Your Interpersonal Relationships

February 2, 2010

“Play nice!”  Every person over the age of 18 has either heard this shriek from their parents or spewed these words to their own little ones. 
Sometimes business professionals need a polite reminder to “play nice.” Meetings, projects, challenging work environments, personality clashes, generational gaps and shrinking budgets, along with personal stress, can wreak havoc on our communication skills and interpersonal relationships.  
I want to [...]

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Building Success with Your Communications Toolbox

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When I first met my husband Andrew in 1987, he lived in a studio apartment on Avenue Z in Brooklyn, NY. One day we went went to hang up a picture and he pulled out his toolbox. I was mortified. Inside lay a kiddie circus light on a tattered string and a rusted butter knife. For [...]

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The 10 Commandments of Public Relations

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The rules and guidelines of publicity and public relations may not have appeared from the heavens on stone tablets thousands of years ago, but there are several guidelines (commandments) that can help you develop valuable media contacts and increase your name recognition.   I’m happy to share my insights and experiences from playing both sides of this industry. I [...]

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Communicating the Sticky Message of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

January 18, 2010

Today the United States honors the life of slain civil rights leader Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
1968 seems so long ago. I was six years old when Dr. King was murdered. Some of you may not have been born. It doesn’t matter because his message is timeless.
These days we talk about ”sticky” messages in marketing and branding. How do you rise above [...]

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The ABC’s of Outstanding Social Media & Business Communication

January 14, 2010

The way you communicate in your business relationships is directly tied to your revenues, reputation and success. Of course Social Media and technology are forcing us to set new rules, boundaries and etiquette. 
Back to grade school we go!
Here are the ABC’s of Outstanding Social Media and Business Communication:
A is for authenticity. In the case of Social Media and online networking, the old [...]

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Want to Look Like a Media Pro: 10 Key Questions To Ask Reporters

January 13, 2010

It’s no secret that reporters and journalists ask a lot of questions. I was a radio news reporter and on-air anchor for 10 years. Think about it: I got paid to ask questions and never had to have any answers. It’s quite a concept. 
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7 Tips to Create Your Proactive PR Plan for 2010

January 11, 2010

Some of you may have already developed a 2010 Public Relations plan. Many people I communicate with through my PR company and blog are confused about where to begin…so they haven’t gotten started just yet. Others say they need some serious tweaks. Help has arrived.  
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3 Tips to Resolving Workplace Conflicts

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Most of us spend a majority of our time at work interacting with colleagues, employees, clients and prospects. There’s bound to be disagreements, misunderstandings and differences of opinion. Often times, communication is at the heart of these situations.  A combination of skilled tact, manners, business etiquette and mature behavior is needed to resolve workplace problems. Note to self: This [...]

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