Charisma is defined as magnetism, allure, charm and appeal. It’s a magical quality of communication that many leaders possess. Whether you agree with their philosophies or not, people like Donald Trump, Oprah Winfrey, Tony Robbins, Jack Welch and Rachael Ray are among the charismatic faces and personalities of our world.
Charisma is not connected to money, fame or power. There are plenty of wealthy and well-known people who are recluses. They lack that special sparkle in their personality.
People with this magnetism and allure look and act like winners. They tend to have big dreams and reach for them.
Charismatic people:
1. Show kindness and empathy towards others
2. Enjoy engaging people and know how to build rapport
3. Convey a genuine interest in the people they encounter, from the boss to the dry cleaner
4. Have a strong sense of humor
5. Show their strength of character
6. Laugh, smile and appear comfortable in their own skin
7. Have a special style that draws people to them, like a magnet
Charisma is a quality that can be learned. Like many other communication styles and habits, charisma is empowering, uplifting and important to success. It’s connected to self-confidence, leadership and sales.
Do you fit the bill? Are people drawn to you, or is there room for improvement?
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Love your ideas about this magnetic energy. I like to think that being real and sincere is part of a healthy magnetic energy. Do you think that some people pull the wool over people’s eyes? Or use their energy in unhealthy ways? Like Hitler?
Hi Doris,
Thank you for your insights and comment. I think the majority of people who have charisma are genuine and in the end, I believe most people can see through someone being disingenous or “fake.” Channeling our energy and magnetism in healthy and productive ways bring waves of goodness into the Universe, for everyone to enjoy.
Happy Holidays!
Susan
Hi Sue,
Great 7 point list. Certainly, all in leadership positions and people-intensive roles must be keenly aware of these. #4 and #6 are ones I continually strive for. (Dry sense of humor.) #7 is the ultimate goal. When people are in “the zone”, that is, when their passions and skills align, confidence and magnetism shines. Question: How can we effectively build online magnetism?
Best, Mike
Hi Mike,
Great question on building that “online magnetism.” I believe, and you can refer to some of my older posts, that if we write with transparency, authenticity and a true desire to help people…balanced with a glimpse into our personal experiences, our readers will get a feel for our personalities, values and “magnetism.” It must come through in your writing. Building rapport with the written word takes practice.
Susan
I love number 3, which is the one that keeps you grounded enough to be #1 empathetic. Great list
Thanks for reading and commenting Vicky. Empathy beats IQ every time….
Best wishes for continued success~
Susan